Japan: The Jan Brady of Asia
- shailayoga
- Aug 8
- 4 min read
Updated: Aug 19
A Unique Perspective on Japan's Cultural Identity
Whether you saw the original airings of the Brady Bunch, the reruns in syndication, or just some memes, you know that it was all about the conventionally beautiful older sister Marcia—often at the expense of the middle sister, Jan.

I've always thought of Japan as the Jan Brady of Asia—so much going for it, but often eclipsed by neighboring China. As a Japan watcher since the 1980s, I believed Japan would finally overtake China (and the US?) as the dominant economic engine, finally getting its due. Then came the Asian Crisis. After four decades of deflation and a "lost generation" (or two?), Japan is slowly emerging again, in part due to a thriving tourism sector.
The Push-Pull Dynamic with China
It turns out, the push-pull dynamic with China extends way beyond my brief interest in the Far East. For hundreds, if not thousands of years, Japan has had to define itself relative to China.
How do you compete with China in science, philosophy, art, literature, and overall global impact? In marketing, we’d call it "product positioning," or finding a niche. Japan has done exactly that and even has a word to describe itself, not only relative to China but also Korea.
Understanding Shin-Gyo-So
Shin-gyo-so is taken from calligraphy. Long story short, there are a few ways of writing: fanciful and detailed, something in between, and minimally abstract.
The easiest way to explain this is to address the opposite ends of the spectrum and then leave room for "gyo" as the middle ground.
Shin = shiny! It’s lavish and detailed. Think of lots of strokes in paintings, gold leaf, and bling. It’s like the gold faucets in a hotel room with chandeliers or zero restraint in accessorizing—think 1980s. It’s about being the best and brightest, confident, and overstated.
On the other end of the spectrum, you have so, which you might be tempted to think of as "so what?" It’s a small hut in the mountains with a monk serving tea. It’s a few brushstrokes that seem to imply a bird or bamboo. It’s indigo-dyed cotton with a compelling unevenness of color. Maybe it’s the 1990s when fashion calmed down and musicians unplugged their guitars for five minutes.
In the present day, you might consider China as shin, Japan as so, and Korea as in the middle, gyo. Gyo is a harmonious balance, like when someone nails "business casual." That said, it’s not the most exciting of the three. Of course, this blows up my analogy. Japan is hardly a whining Cindy Brady. Japan is a studious, reserved, and steady Jan. Japan is chill, introverted, and preppy, not flashy. She also has a fun side: manga and anime.
Japan's Moment in the Spotlight
Right now, Japan is having a moment. It’s suddenly a standout on the world stage of tourism as people avoid China for various reasons. It seems as if the current chill generations can’t get enough so, from tea ceremonies to Uniqlo basics in beige and black.
You can apply shin-gyo-so to almost anything, maybe even a yoga class. Shin is mirrors, music, hardwood floors, Lululemon, and fast flows. So is long holds—getting to know the poses with an emphasis on how a pose "feels" versus what it looks like.
If you’re not sure and think something is in between, no problem! You can say it’s shin-gyo or gyo-so, etc. In fact, it could be argued that the very definition of "cool" often involves creating a tension of sorts between two elements: a prom dress with white sneaks.
The Japanese are masters of creating this tension on both micro and macro levels. There’s even a term for it that has been in use for a while: #cooljapan.
Embracing Japan's Cultural Nuances
So while China is nursing a potential broken nose for the time being, all eyes are finally on Japan! If you visit, please understand they’re not used to all the attention. They like to keep things uncluttered and low-key, so be quiet on the trains and carry your trash until you find a receptacle.
The Beauty of Japanese Culture
Japan is rich in tradition and modernity. From ancient temples to bustling cities, there’s a unique blend of the old and the new. The culture is steeped in respect and mindfulness, which is evident in everything from the tea ceremony to the art of calligraphy.
Exploring Japanese Cuisine
One cannot talk about Japan without mentioning its incredible cuisine. Sushi, ramen, and tempura are just the tip of the iceberg. Each region has its specialties, and every meal is a celebration of flavors and presentation. You won't find the overwhelming flavors though of China and Korea, you'll find the subtle so palate. No need to waste your money on the highest grade; most foreigners haven't cultivated the palate to know the difference between great sushi and awesome sushi.
The Allure of Japanese Nature
The natural beauty of Japan is breathtaking. From the cherry blossoms in spring to the vibrant autumn leaves, nature plays a significant role in Japanese culture. Hiking in the Japanese Alps or visiting the serene gardens can be a transformative experience. Again, keep it low-key, quiet and so, not chatter and selfie sticks!
The Impact of Technology
Japan is also a leader in technology. The blend of tradition and innovation is fascinating. Whether it’s robotics or cutting-edge electronics, Japan continues to push the boundaries of what’s possible.
Conclusion: A Journey Worth Taking
In conclusion, Japan is not just a destination; it’s an experience. Whether you’re drawn to its rich history, stunning landscapes, or vibrant culture, there’s something for everyone. So, pack your bags and get ready to explore the wonders of Japan. Japan is in the details, which now you can frame in terms of shin-gyo-so and the tension between them!
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